I came across this book in The Vision Forum Catalog....
By age fourteen, Jasmine Baucham’s little-girl dreams of becoming a mommy were supplanted by bigger visions of winning the Pulitzer Prize or an Oscar and appearing on Oprah. She began viewing the calling of home and marriage as second-rate. Then her world was radically challenged by the Scriptures, as she went from craving personal renown to craving to please the Lord through delighting in his design for the joyful home — an even bigger dream, she realized, than stardom.
In Joyfully at Home, Jasmine writes with verve and transparency about her own struggles and triumphs as a young woman, encouraging other girls to embrace a vision for the home as a hub of ministry and discipleship and as a training ground for life ahead. With humor, humility, and heart, Jasmine tackles the tough questions girls face, offering practical counsel on how to overcome false views of marriage, husbands, and singleness.
I want to encourage young women . . . to be enthusiastic and vibrant, purposeful and driven, meticulous and passionately focused in pursuit of the Lord's will for their time at home. —Jasmine Baucham
Why do single young women choose to stay at home? Can they be fulfilled and content under their father's roof? What do they do with their time? Jasmine Baucham has written a winsome, compelling, and hard-hitting book which will encourage and inspire all the women in your home! Joyfully at Home will challenge your thinking and help you honestly answer the really tough questions. —Beall Phillips
After reading this I sat back and thought...whoa.
My mom remarried while I was in high school. She had a new marriage, a full time job, and 3 younger children. She may not have intentionally pushed me out but I felt like I didn't have a place at home. So I left and got my first apartment a week before I graduated. I came to the Lord shortly after that and moved back home. Met a boy, fell in love, moved out, and married him 6 months after meeting him. I can look back and say...Yeah, I was seeking a home. I needed to feel needed. To be a part of something. And thankfully God brought me my husband.
Before I read about this book I've said the following...
My kids will work at 16.
My kids will leave the house soon after they graduate.
We won't push them to go to college but they have to do something.
I brought this up to a friend of mine. She was home schooled, her family loves the Lord, and she's still at home. I told her about this book and that I'd never even thought this was an option in a family. I ask her,'Were you guys encouraged to stay home until marriage?' And this is what they were taught...
Pursue your passions.
Seek God always.
They weren't told they had to leave, or to go to school, or to find a job. Pursue your passions. Seek God always. Go from there...that's it.
That's all there is isn't there? In life I mean. Doesn't God give you the desires of your heart? The desires of His heart for you? Should we lean not on our own understanding??
How is this not obvious? How is this not what we are teaching our children?? Guess what...
We will not push our children out.
They will always have a place in our home...until they marry of course :)
We will give them the tools to pursue their passions.
We will encourage them to seek God always.
Thank you ST your family has inspired me in more ways than one.
I love this!
ReplyDeleteI love the photos of Parker and Justice.
ReplyDeleteHi! This is how we have raised our children as well. Our oldest daughter married at 21 and now has 3 little ones of her own. She was always homeschooled and after receiving her drivers' license she worked as a mother's help for several of our friends. She also worked part-time at a bakery and later at a tanning salon.
ReplyDeleteOur second daughter will soon be 23 and is still at home. She teaches violin one full day a week and tutors another family's children another full day per week. She is able to teach her younger sister violin and teaches all of the younger ones a music history course. She would love to be married, but isn't rushing into anything. She is pursuing Biblical studies under her father and is working on certification as a Suzuki Method Violin Instructor.
Our third child will be 19 this fall. He is continuing his studies at home and is able to spend a lot of time learning about photography and homesteading. He is currently doing the first edit of a book that he wrote, is in charge of our family garden and works part-time with his father at The Homeschool Channel where he edits films that have been taken at homeschool conferences around the country. In the midst of learning all about editing, etc he is also learning much from the speakers that he edits, including Voddie Baucham (father of Jasmin, author of Joyfully Home). There is so much to learn and young adulthood is the time to learn before the time is given over with the need to make a living, etc. We train all of our kids to save as much money as they can to free themselves up when they get married...,money for furnishings or a down payment on a home. Silly to send them out when they can still learn so much at home while being able to contribute to the home and to make some money to save for the future as well.
We have seven children in all and pray that they will all desire to stay at home until marriage or mission work takes them away.
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